I really enjoy riding or walking through the same area again and again. Even riding the same bus route. Every time I notice something different, talk to new people, hear new things, and have thoughts that are foreign to me.
The street that spurred this train of thought was 1st Street in san Jose, and I am usually walking to my church's office/Ministry Center, or walking from there to the bus stop. I have walked down it at different times of the day, on different days of the week, in diiferent seasons of the year.
Something I realized, as I was observing people, and thinking about them, is that each person has a story. I know that sounds cliche, and I knowing calling it cliche is cliche, but it feels very true. Every single detail about every personhas a story, and that story is interesting. The man in front of me, how did he afford that phone? Where did he get his job? Why did he get that tattoo? The two black men who just off, why were they friends with each other? The white lady who is about to get off, what did she buy at Wal-Mart? How come she walks like that, all choppy, and slightly stooped? Her purse, the Dolce and Gabana one, did she buy that new, or did someone give it to her? Every car, every hat, shoe, pants, shirt, every bike, every stroller, grocery cart, laundry cart, every tattoo, every bag, every packpack, every book, every friend, every pet, every laugh, song, greeting, farewell, they all have a story, and they are all important to that person.
Those people living in that horse trailer at the fairgrounds, what stories would they tell me about? How about the Latino boyfriend and girlfriend sitting in the front of the bus. What caused that huge tomato plant I rode by to be planted, and what caused it to grow? What is important to that man watching new tires get put on his car? I don't know, but someone does. and someone cares. Why don't I care? Is there an excuse for not caring why people talk to themselves, or why people are totally drunk, or why people are pushing a cart filled with everything they own? Should I be worrying about wether the woman sitting next to me has access to as good of an education as I do? How would I be able to think about that for everyone, because that is what would be required, not just thinking about some people, but about everyone. I'm waaaaay out of my league here, after all, there are 7.something billion people in the world, and a tiny percent have it "good". Just thinking about the stories, let alone the problems is fairly over whelming. Everyone has jokes, best stories, highs (of all kinds) and lows to tell about. There is something so fulfilling about telling those.
I was up in San Jose for a meeting with CityTeam, a non-profit organization that does a lot of really good work in the San Jose/Sillicon Valley area for the disadvantaged. First, why I was there. Actually, it was myself, and my youth pastor, Kyle, and we were there to meet with one of their guys about the youth group doing some volunteer work with them over the summer. We got a tour of one of their locations, and I think, the biggest and most important one in San Jose. We saw the men's shelter, where they help rehab men, the learning center, where both men and women can learn practical skills, the community kitchen, where anyone can come and get a free meal, the food pantry, the clothes rooms,and the furniture room. We also heard about some of the other, seasonal programs they do, like "Backpacks of Success", "Coats for Kids", etc. It was really interesting, because it sounds like they do a fair amount of middle-manning, but in the non-profit sense of the word. There are large donors out there, and give in quanities that just cannot be handled by small groups, but there are also small groups out there that wouldn't even get a sit-down with one of those large donors. What City Team does a lot is find all those small groups, and break up what the huge donors have given. I don't have numbers in front of me, but I will post those when I do, but they talking in terms of hundreds with things like winter coats, backpacks, toys, and other things that would be overwhelming to a group of 7 in one neighborhood. To me, this is a really important function, partially because I have seen how well it works for the for-profit system.
School is out here, so I'm seeing lots more kids my age around. Most of them look bored, angry, or tired, and often a combination of all 3 at the same time. Walking around, with no real goal, hanging out, with no plans at all. Perhaps my hanging out skills are a little weak, and my summer sensibilities are underdeveloped, but hanging out with zero plans sounds like the most awful way to spend the summer, which has the nicest weather. I guess I shouldn't talk, because doing school isn't exactly the funnest either.
Some guys act around girls like they take no pleasure in being with a pretty girl, which is a shame. Why has being nice to someone become something that can only happen if two people are in a relationship?
I love seeing two people who really like each other, coming back together after being apart. They
One of other things I was thinking about as I was walking was the setting. What brought those buildings into existence? Why was the courthouse built there? Who is that statue of, and why is he so great? What are all the things that have happened at that park? I think it would be so interesting to just stay in some public place for an entire year, just to take in everything that happens.
Even more so for things like trees, streams, and hills. What natural disasters, human dramas, changes in the environment has that bid old tree seen? What animals have nested there, who has taken a nap under it? How did that tree even get there? Some squirrel?
Friday and Saturday were pretty fun, and very exhausting. Did I say exhausting? It was exhausting. After the Aquarium, which will get a little mini-post later, I rode the bus/rode with my dad (Thanks again!!) to Manresa Beach. The youth group was having a beach party. Highlights included a group of college kids coming over and playing football with us, just the youth playing tackle football (I was savage!), and jumping over a huge pit. For a whie I sat in an inflatable couch someone left behind, and watched the pitjumping, while eating my bratwurst and drinking my cream soda. I thought of a new term. "Beach Potato".
We left the beach at 10:30, and didn't get to the Ministry Center, where we would be spending the night, until 11:30ish. We played some video games, I got demolished, we played Sardines (one of the most terrifying games ever), ate some unhealthy food, then did it again. Someone, perhaps Kyle, perhaps not, got the bright idea of t.p.'ing someone's house. One of the youth had said she would be there, and she wasn't!! Like signing her own order of exucution. Actually was my first t.p.. outing, and I can see why it is fun. Unfortunately, the father of the house is from Pittsburgh, where t.p.ing is really malicious. This was in good fun, with no harm intended. Intentions do not make actions though, because if they did, we would have found so many WMD's in Iraq the globe would have been tilting in that direction.
Hold on!! What is a Christmas tree farm sign doing in the middle of June?
Morgan Hill, my town, is really trying to have a vital and ineresting downtown, but tjere just isn't the heighth for it. Almost everything is single-story, which really limits the amount of people, or stores, or anything that can be in any given area. I am waiting and waiting for them to get this. Probably doesn't help that the only people buying much of anything right now are leperchauns, the Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy, and quiet little dogs.
A bunch of handicapped guys just got on, and Alex bowled with them for a while. They are all so darn nice, they all have buddies that they see on the bus, and they talk to them, and build up a relationship. Why do the "misfits" make up some of the most beautiiful interactions in our society? How do people how are learning disabled learn multiple languages? I'm still trying to get mine down perfect. I wonder if the uses make a difference? The hardly write anything, and use their language for a different magnitude of communication. Still amazing. I know a guy the same age as Al, he speaks Tagalg, English, fluently, and is learning Spainish.
I just had an interesting idea, looking at San Martin, which is an unincorporated area between Morgan Hill and Gilroy. In ecology, there are places known as "ectotones". They are places of transition between different biomes. San Martin is one of those places. Not quite suburban, not quite country. Can you guys think of others places like this?
That's all I have for now.
Have a good day!!